This is one of my favorite poems. I'm not particularly well-read, at least not enough to have accumulated a "favorite poems" list of any great length - I found this one one day in college as I was skipping ahead through my American literature anthology when I was supposed to be reading what was actually assigned. But I've loved this ever since. It's about marriage and I think it is perfect. Enjoy!
Most Like an Arch This Marriage
Most like an arch—an entrance which upholds
and shores the stone-crush up the air like lace.
Mass made idea, and idea held in place.
A lock in time. Inside half-heaven unfolds.
Most like an arch—two weaknesses that lean
into a strength. Two fallings become firm.
Two joined abeyances become a term
naming the fact that teaches fact to mean.
Not quite that? Not much less. World as it is,
what’s strong and separate falters. All I do
at piling stone on stone apart from you
is roofless around nothing. Till we kiss
I am no more than upright and unset.
It is by falling in and in we make
the all-bearing point, for one another’s sake,
in faultless failing, raised by our own weight.
John Ciardi, “Most Like an Arch This Marriage” from I Marry You (New Brunswick, NJ: Rutgers University Press, 1958). Used with the permission of the Ciardi Family Publishing Trust.
Source: The Collected Poems of John Ciardi (University of Arkansas Press, 1997)
(found on the interwebs here: http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poem/176395)
Source: The Collected Poems of John Ciardi (University of Arkansas Press, 1997)
(found on the interwebs here: http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poem/176395)
2 comments:
I love this poem! I have been thinking about arches today, since I taught about Roman architecture this morning. Thanks for sharing!
What a funny coincidence! Happy I could share. :)
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